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Growing Up

HOW I BECAME HARRY LEE

WHEN I was born, the family consulted a friend knowledgeable in these matters for an auspicious name for me.

He suggested "Kuan Yew", the dialect rendering of the Mandarin guang yao, meaning "light and brightness". But my grandfather's admiration for the British made him add "Harry" to my name, so I was Harry Lee Kuan Yew.

My two younger brothers, Kim Yew and Thiam Yew, were also given Christian names -- Dennis and Freddy respectively.

At that time few non-Christian Chinese did this, and at school later I was to find myself the odd boy out with a personal name like "Harry".

When my youngest brother, Suan Yew, was born in 1933, I persuaded my parents not to give him a Christian name since we were not Christians.

WE FOUGHT WITH KITES, MARBLES

I OFTEN played with the children of the Chinese fishermen and of the Malays living in a nearby kampung, a cluster of some 20 or 30 attap or zinc-roofed wooden huts in a lane opposite my grandfather's house. The fishermen worked along Siglap beach, then about 200 yards away.

It was a simpler world altogether. We played with fighting kites, tops, marbles and even fighting fish. These games nurtured a fighting spirit and the will to win.

I do not know whether they prepared me for the fights I was to have later in politics. We were not soft, nor were we spoilt.

FROM BULLOCK CART TO CONCORDE

FOR holidays, the family would spend up to a week at a wooden house in my grandfather Chua's rubber estate in Chai Chee. To get to the estate from Changi Road, we rode down a track in a bullock cart, its two bullocks driven by my grandmother's gardener.

The cart had wooden wheels with metal rims and no shock absorbers, so that half-mile ride on the rutted clay track was hilariously bumpy.

Fifty years later, in 1977, as I travelled in a Concorde from London to New York and crossed the Atlantic in three hours, I wondered if any of my fellow passengers had ever experienced the joy of a bullock-cart ride.

SPURRED ON BY MUM's SACRIFICES

SHE devoted her life to raising her children to be well-educated and independent professionals, and she stood up to my father to safeguard their future. My brothers, my sister and I were very conscious of her sacrifices; we felt we could not let her down and did our best to be worthy of her.

As I grew older, she began consulting me as the eldest son on all important family matters, so that while still in my teens, I became de facto head of the family. This taught me how to take decisions.

CANED BY THE PRINCIPAL

ONCE I was caned by the principal. D.W. McLeod was a fair but strict disciplinarian who enforced rules impartially, and one rule was that a boy who was late for school three times during one term would get three strokes of the cane.

I was always a late riser, an owl more than a lark, and when I was late for school the third time in a term in 1938, the form master sent me to see McLeod.

The principal knew me from the number of prizes I had been collecting on prize-giving days and the scholarships I had won.

But I was not let off with an admonition. I bent over a chair and was given three of the best with my trousers on. I did not think he lightened his strokes.

I have never understood why Western educationists are so much against corporal punishment.

It did my fellow students and me no harm.

A PLAYFUL, MISCHIEVOUS STREAK

I ENJOYED my years in Raffles Institution. I coped with the work comfortably, was active in the Scout movement, played cricket and some tennis, swam and took part in many debates.

But I never became a prefect, let alone head prefect. There was a mischievous, playful streak in me.

Too often, I was caught not paying attention in class, scribbling notes to fellow students, or mimicking some teacher's strange mannerisms.

In the case of a rather ponderous Indian science teacher, I was caught in the laboratory drawing the back of his head with its bald patch.

 SEP 20 1998

 

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